Thriving with Attention Deficit Disorder

Attention Deficit Disorder sucks – sort of. Fortunately, God's gifts are only good ones. The trick is finding the good in them. I grew up with it. Got it from Dad, I think. It makes you hyperactive. You have trouble focusing, You can't sit still in class. You're always fidgeting or diddling with something. You have trouble paying attention in class or getting your homework done. Here are some survival tips for coping with ADHD and finding the sharp edge of this two-edged sword.

An unharnessed gift.

School:

Realize that school is not designed for you. We adapted our system of education from the Germans around the turn of the last century. It sounded great – all orderly and graded and regular. It was designed to meet the needs of the industrial revolution. German schools were designed to teach children to show up on time, to do repetitive work and not to complain about it.

The problem is the United States was settled by people who don't like to sit in one place all day, do repetitive work and not complain. According to one Harvard sociologist, there's a reason Americans have higher rates of ADHD than practically anywhere in the free world. Our hyperactive ancestors got kicked out of every nice, tidy, civilized country in the world. They came here and percolated north, south and west till they ran out of frontier and invented Alaska, California and Texas.

Basically there are a lot of us. So how do you survive a school system designed for obsessive compulsives if you have ADHD? Here are some suggestions.

1.Take notes in class. I started in 5th grade. If your hands are busy you can focus better and you don't need to study so hard.
2.Do your homework in class. You have to sit there anyway, so you might as well get something done. You probably aren't an auditory learner anyway.
3.Set doable goals and give yourself a reward for doing your homework. The reward is important because positive feedback is a key element in achieving the flow experience. If nobody else is going to give you positive feedback, you'll need to do it yourself.
4.Record things you're going to be tested on and run the tape over headphones while you're going to sleep. Before you doze off, a lot of info gets pumped into your relaxed brain and maybe even while you sleep. I used to wake up in the night and flip the tape over.

Selecting a Career:

Vocational testing was disappointing for me. The counselor said I could do practically anything I wanted. That only confused me further. I spent two years in grad school studying rehab and vocational psych. Here's what I learned about testing and ADHD.

Testing shows you what you like, not what you'd be good at. It gives you an idea of what field you'd enjoy being in, but not necessarily what job within that field. With ADHD you tend to be focused widely, on lots of things at once. Unless something is very powerful and intense, it won't hold your attention. Being a CPA is unlikely to work out for you because you are too easily distracted. You like sports and hobbies that involve a lot of action. You're designed to be a hunter, alert to everything in your environment, quick to spot game, then intensely focused on the chase.

Choose a couple or three good fields and then see if you can find a job within that field that plays to your strength. Drawn to the medical field? You'll probably do better as an EMT than a floor nurse, a better trauma surgeon than an administrator (if you're smart and stubborn enough to get through med school). If you like the aviation, join the Air Force. The training is intense, but there are jobs there for you if you are good under pressure, in an emergency of have to think on your feet. ADHD folk go into law enforcement and fire-fighting. They're notoriously good in action and lousy with paperwork.

Getting Into the Zone:

Psychologist, Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi did some ground-breaking work a few years ago on why some people find such satisfaction in what they do. He described a phenomenon called “Flow”, a mental state in which a person is fully immersed in an activity, feels energized, focused, fully involved and successful”. Flow is what athletes experience in the midst of a game. It's the hyperfocus of surgeon working without relief for hours to rebuild a human heart or brain. It's a kid playing a video game for six hours straight.

Parents of ADHD kids have long complained that their kids can't concentrate in school, but can focus on a video game for hours. This ability of ADHD kids to hyperfocus leads many to believe they are deliberately disruptive and restless in school and if they just applied themselves, they could focus.

The ability to focus on intensely immersive experiences is an example of how “flow” works. Psychologist George Simon suggests that if ADHD patients learn to channel the flow experience, thye can make it work for them. To do so, you need to look for jobs that allow you some flexibility and allow you to:

1. Select tasks that have clearly defined objectives. Boring tasks or jobs that require you to shift from one task to another will overwhelm you. Trim the scope of tasks you take on so that they come in achievable bites and can be completed within the time allotted. Shelter the work site so you aren't frequently interrupted. When you are in the zone, you do your best work.
2. Get training to prepare you for the job. Flow happens best when you are skilled at what you are doing. That's why athletes and musicians, artists and computer programmers are so incredibly focused. They have developed skills in difficult arts. When you have practiced a skill to the point that the skill itself becomes second nature, you move past merely pressing the piano keys or throwing the football. These skills are ready and at your command when you need them. Your mind is free to think about strategy and nuance of the game or activity. Chess players, painters, sculptors, soldiers, and fire-fighters all find that their senses are fully engaged when using these well-practiced skills. They experience a kind of hyperfocus that overpowers distractions from the surrounding world.
3. Make sure you create clear measurable objectives for what you want to accomplish. In a game, the objective is usually just to win. If you don't know where you are going, you won't be able to focus your efforts sufficiently to get there. Flow is best experienced when you are proceeding success to success. As in a game, you complete one series of tasks and you move to the next level or series of tasks. The harder it is for you to maintain focus, the more limited your objective should be.
4. Design lots of feedback into what you are doing. Regular positive feedback keeps you engaged in the task and maintains the flow experience. Games create flow by having dozens of little feedback events along the way. You shoot, something explodes. You jump, you clear the obstacle. You find the key, you open the door. Feedback is probably the most important thing necessary to maintain flow.
5. Find a place to work where nobody will interrupt you. Interruptions are the death of flow. If you can, cut off the phone and steer visitors in another direction. White noise like a fan or radio turned low or one of those ocean wave tapes or something can help blur potential distractions.
6. Time your tasks so you can work without distractions. When you are experiencing the flow state, you will lose track of time. You may have to set an alarm clock or ask a colleague to remind you when it's time to go home or you may find yourself looking up and realizing hours have passed. If you work for yourself or have a job that's a little more flexible and can set an open-ended work session, then you can press on to completion.

If you match your work style with the jobs you take on, you can take advantage of your ability to achieve flow to help you succeed in your life's work despite your ADHD. In fact, your project oriented works style may even prove an advantage in some sorts of jobs. While performing tasks you will find that you become more and more adept at achieving a state of flow. If you aren't in charge of your work schedule or how you set up the parameters of your workspace and times, find yourself an ally. It can be a colleague, a teacher, or supervisor. Family and friends can help not only help you get what you need to work well, but act as your advocate and ally in adapting your work to your most effective style.

Summary:

Achieving flow can help you overcome the distractibilty that tends to dog people with ADHD throughout their career. Achieving flow while performing job related tasks can help you be successful, but be aware. The flow experience, while satisfying, can be almost addictive. This helps you slip into the flow state more easily when getting down to work. Unfortunately, if you have other absorbing tasks or activities in your work area, you can wind up doing one function of your job to the exclusion of the other. Try moving potential non-targeted activities out of your sight if you need to do something else, so you don't spend all your time editing videos, for instance, and never getting around to editing your audio tracks. Don't leave your Game Boy on your desk either or you can find yourself playing games all afternoon.

Use the flow experience to help you succeed. Don't let it use you to make you fail.

References:

FLOW: The Psychology of Optimal Experience by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, Harper and Row, 1990.
http://www.julieboyd.com.au/ILF/pages/members/cats/bkovervus/per_growth_pdfs/flow.pdf

VAXA: Hyperfocus The Other Side of ADHD
http://www.vaxa.com/hyperfocus.cfm

TED: Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi on flow
http://www.ted.com/talks/mihaly_csikszentmihalyi_on_flow.html

Counseling Resource: Hyperfocus and ADHD
http://counsellingresource.com/ask-the-psychologist/2009/10/13/hyperfocus-and-adhd/
ADDitude Magazine: Learn About ADHD: Hyperfocus
http://www.additudemag.com/adhd/article/612.html

© 2011 by Tom King

Exterminating the Koobface Worm

 

Watch out for a fresh round of the Koobface worm on Facebook. You'll get a message from someone you trust that offers a link to a youtube video. It sends you to a fake youtube site.

A popup opens saying you need the latest version of Flash Player to play the video. DO NOT CLICK ON THE FAKE FLASH PLAYER LINK.

Do that and you won't get infected.  If you did click on the fake Flash Player link, you have the Koobface worm.  Here's how I cleaned it off my computer.  You can also watch a Youtube video that tells how to get rid of it.  I got to it done quickly before it brutalized my system, so all I had to do was run Malwarebyte's Anti-Malware software.  If you have had it for a while, watch the video for some extra steps you might need to take.

I cleaned it off my computer within hours. If it stays any time at all, it will harvest your name and some private info. If it stays long enough it will harvest your passwords and send it to the hacker.

Here's what I did. 

1. Go to  http://support.kaspersky.com/viruses/solutions?qid=208280684  and download the TDSS Rootkit removal tool.  It comes as a zip file.  Save it on your desktop.  Extract the file to your desktop.  Don't put the TDSS Killer program in a folder on the desktop.  Just extract it to the desktop. 
2. Run the tool, clean and repair following the prompts and then restart the computer.
3. Go to http://www.norman.com/support/support_tools/58732/en and download the Norman Malware Cleanter and place it on your desktop.
4. Run Norman Malware Cleaner and clean any installed malware from your computer.  Follow the cleaning prompts and then reboot your computer.
5. Go to CNET.com 
6. Download "Malwarebyte's Anti-Malware program (it's free). 
7. Install Anti-Malware, check for and download the latest updates and run the full scan. It will take a while. When it's done it will list the infected files. 
8. Leave the boxes checked and click on the repair link. 
9. Now go away for 15-20 minutes (don't mess with it). The program may appear to freeze. Just cut off the power and reboot when you come back. 
10. Rerun the Anti-Malware software. A scan should show you free of the worm. Check the last log file and it will show what was found and deleted.
11. First time you open your Firefox browser, don't go anywhere.  Click on Tools > Options > Advanced > Network > Settings.  Then change the settings to "No Proxy" and you should be okay. This worm hijacks the proxy settings on your computer.  If you don't do this, it will still redirect you to a bogus website and make your life miserable.
12. The first time you open your I.E. browser, click on Tools > Internet Options > Connections > LAN settings.  Uncheck the "Proxy Server" option and check "Automatically check settings".  I had to close I.E. the first time because it wouldn't let me select Internet Options, but the second time I opened it, I was able to fix it.  Don't know why - possibly because I hadn't used IE since I contracted the Koobface worm.  (Doesn't that sound just like something you'd pick up on a trip to a bordertown restaurant). 

Anyway, this ought to get you back up and running and keep your system clean. 

IF IT DOES NOT, GO GET ON THE "MY BLEEPING COMPUTER" WEBSITE AND SIGN UP FOR AN ACCOUNT: http://www.bleepingcomputer.com/

They have some very knowledgeable folk on the site who can talk you through a thorough cleanup. You may encounter recommendations to use a program called "Combofix" on other websites. Do not use this program without getting help from the Bleeping Computer folks. It fools around with key parts of the computer's operating system and if you don't know what you are doing, you can get really screwed up.

You'll need to set up an Account on "Bleeping Computer" and post a topic for your specific problem. There is a list of preparatory steps you'll have to take to get ready and the process may take a little time to work through. It's either that or pay some computer tech several hundred bucks to wipe and rebuild your hard drive and you still may lose data in the process.

One more note. If you try to search "Koobface Worm Removal" you will get links to a lot of sites that will actually give you the Koobface worm. Make sure you have a tool like "Web of Trust" or your anti-malware software running to warn you about untrustworthy sites. Try the above process and "Bleeping Computer" before you go stepping into that minefield. Doing a Google search to correct a "google redirect" virus that you have on your computer is asking for a trip through the looking glass.

One more note.  If you try to search "Koobface Worm Removal" you will get links to a lot of sites that will actually give you the Koobface worm.  Try the above process before you go stepping into that minefield.

Hackers who do this are thugs and bullies and no better than the punks who used to give them wedgies back in junior high school. I personally think we should catch them and hang them publicly in the town square -- by the back of their Fruit-of-the-Looms! Just let 'em dangle there for a while! Then we should put them all on a deserted island somewhere well north of the tropics where it gets really cold in the winter. Leave them no computers or electricity - nothing but farm tools and bags of turnip seeds.

Good luck.

Tom

A Great Vegetarian Barbecue Dish

Eating vegetarian meat substitutes is a great way to reduce the cholesterol in your diet dramatically and many of the products produced by such companies as Worthington Foods, Loma Linda Foods and Boca offer vegetarian alternatives for a variety of meat products.  I'm in the hospital with a kidney stone and because of the surgery I had yesterday, I haven't eaten much all weekend and I'm starving.  When I get really hungry I crave a really unique vegetarian meal that is my wife's specialty.

Miss Sheila trained under two of the finest cooks I ever knew of--my grandmother and hers. She can hold her own with either of them and, although I would never have told either of them, she outdoes them on many things. Her original idea for barbecue Tender-bits(TM) is everybody's favorite for celebratory meals in the King household. Since Sheila has made me promise to outlive her, I made her teach me how to make her signature dish.

Barbecue Tender-Bits

Original Recipe by Sheila King

- Ingredients -

1. 2 Cans Loma Linda Tender-bits
2. Flour
3. Seasoned Salt
4. Oil
5. Bulls-Eye or KC Masterpiece BBQ Sauce

- Instructions -

1. Remove the top and bottom from both Tender-bit cans and press from the can. Drain the Tender-bits and halve or quarter each "bit" as you prefer.  I like mine larger, Sheila likes 'em quartered.
2. Put a quarter to half cup of flour in a large mixing bowl and toss in the Tender-bits.  Dust them thoroughly and lightly season with seasoned salt.
3. Just cover the bottom of a large frying pan or electric skillet in canola oil and heat..
4. Place floured "bits" into the oil and cook stirring twice till the outsides are crisp and turn golden brown.
5. Pour a bottle of barbecue sauce over the Tender-Bits and remaining oil.  With the flour that got into the oil along with the Tender-bits, the barbecue sauce will make a delicious gravy that will cover the vege-meat.  When the gravy begins to bubble, turn the heat down to keep the dish warm while you cook the rest of the meal.  This allows the Tender-bits to marinate in the barbecue gravy.

Setting:  These are our favorite side dishes to go along with Barbecue Tender-Bits

1. Mama's Southern Mashed Potatoes with a little garlic, butter and cream cheese
2. Broccoli with a bit of melted Velveeta Cheese
3. Salad finely chopped with Ranch Dressing
4. Honeymama's Whole Wheat Dinner Rolls (so good they don't even need butter)
5. Peach Cobbler with Blue Bell Homemade Vanilla Ice Cream

Where to Buy:

Barbecued Tender-Bits as God intended

This meal illustrates why all vegetarians are not emaciated skeletons. Many of us are quite substantial individuals.  Tender-Bits are a vegan meat substitute (for what meat I am not sure).  They work really well in Chinese dishes, however, though they aren't much like chicken.  They make a nice neutral meat-like garnish for spicy dishes and tangy sauces.  You can order them by the case on Amazon.com, from Loma Linda or or any regional Seventh Day Adventist book store or vegetarian food store (found in most Adventist college towns). 

Next time we make up a batch, I'll take a picture and post it here.  Till then, bon appetit.

* Did and done. As you can see even just half a can makes up a nice sized batch for two.  When we have the kids and their families over, Sheila makes two or three cans and when it's all done, there are never any leftovers.